How do you proceed?

We all know of the Wiccan Rede which states:

Bide the Rede we must
in perfect love and perfect trust
eight words the Wiccan Rede forfill
"An Ye Harm None, Do As Ye Will"
least in thy self defense it be
ever mind the Rule of Three
Merry we meet, and Merry we Part

Now let me place this question that I have to you. There is a person in my life in which time after time they have caused me nothing but pain and sorrow. They are now in a bind in which some bad things may be happening to them. Now do I

A.) Work a spell so that fortune smiles upon them, and the negative things that are going to happen to them never unfold.

or

B.) Do I just let nature run its course and mark it up to the Rule of Three coming back around for them finally?

Now here is more to add to this delema. If I work a spell for them, this shows that I have turned the other cheek and moved on through forgivness, and this possibably keeps them at bay and just on the outsides of my life. Or do nothing and it possibably have the adverse effect of drawing them closer into my life? I am very stuck on what to do.

For years now I have worked spells against this person in hopes of removing them from my life, yet now I am baffeled by rather or not to help this person or just let them get what is coming to them.

How do you proceed?